loose, neutral, and open to possibility

neutral allows flow, directed by intent.  judgment equals resistance, which hangs up flow. diverts flow into the monkey-mind condition of having to figure out "why? (why is this happening?)" and "how? (how do i get past this?)".  expectation separates the flow of intent from action in the present moment, and creates a chasm between pleasure now (knowing all is well, everything is happening Right on schedule, the universe is automatically in your favor) and a perceived "future" moment when a certain outcome will/should present itself.  since there is ever only the Now, shifting focus and Worry (with a capital W) to the future only serves to divide up the energy stream that you are Now into bunched up bitz, separating yourself from the reflection, in the moment, of your pure intent.